On Finding Yourself…
The other day a woman asked me The Power Of Temperaments Academy was about “Finding Yourself.”
Interesting question.
After considerable thought, I said, “No…not exactly. But, yes, kind of…”
It’s a bit like you’re lost but not lost like a puppy who runs away from home and can’t find it’s way back.
Nor is it lost like when you make a right turn when you should have made a left, don’t realize it for a long time, and ultimately need to ask directions to get back on track. You have no clue.
Nor is it like when your cell phone slips behind the cushions on the couch and it takes you half a day to find it.
Your Real You… Your Real You Again
Your “Real You” is always right there. It’s never lost. It’s impossible.
It’s created at conception and doesn’t ever go away. It also doesn’t change throughout your life.
It’s embedded in your genetic system and encoded in your DNA.
The problem is that it gets buried to the point that you forget about it altogether. If you forget about it, then you’re not using its power to your full potential. And, you’re probably not looking for it anyway.
Burying Your Real You…
How do your innate, Real You traits and characteristics get buried in the first place?
- “Cultural Conditioning. It’s the way “normal” society expects you to be. Society, in general, does this to you.
- The influence of other people (let’s call them “Influencers). They’re third parties and are usually well-meaning friends and family members. Your parents are a good example. They have their own opinions about how you should be…what you should think…what kinds of behavior you should exhibit…what kinds of schools you should go to… what grades you should get…what clothes are acceptable for you to wear…what sort of friends you should have…and all manner of other opinions about you, what you think, how you feel, and how you “should” behave.
- Later on, friends do the same thing as does society as a whole.
- And, ultimately you. As a kid, usually starting in infancy as a result of the opinions and pressures of the Influencers in your life, you began drawing useless, inaccurate, false, and misleading conclusions about yourself. You started forming beliefs and opinions (unconsciously/subconsciously at first but consciously, too, with age) about who you are, what you are, and how you “should” behave.
- You internalized and then manifested all those Influencers’ beliefs and opinions and then manifested them into the World as masks, disguises, costumes, characters, and caricatures of the Real You. The result is what I like to call the “Fake Yous.” (Yes. You can have many of them.)
You Have Multiple Personalities…
Your Fake You’s show themselves as multiple masks, disguises, characters, and caricatures. They are commonly known as “personalities.”
You have multiple personalities. Everyone does.
You have the ones for work, those you use at home, and the ones you employ when playing with your kids.
You have different personalities for dealing with your boss or your employees, the ones used when picking up someone in a bar or nightclub, some reserved for playing competitive sports, and many more.
In fact, your potential personalities are unlimited. You can and do change them at will. Plus, they’re as easy to change as putting on a fresh pair of socks.
The Academy Is An Excavation Project…
The Power of Temperaments Academy is not here for “finding you: or helping you find yourself because you’re not really lost in the first place. You’ve never been lost. Just confused by the rubble.
Your Real You has always been exactly where it’s supposed to be. Inside you. In your genetics and DNA.
The Academy is here to show you how to take off all the masks and disguises prompted by your Influencers.
The Academy is here to help you dig through all the garbage that you’ve piled on the Real You in order to dispatch all your Fake Yous.
It’s an excavation project.
You probably don’t know the Real You even exists. It’s unlikely you know how to get back in touch with it. I’d be shocked if you know how to align, synchronize, and harmonize your life and lifestyle with your Real You.
The Academy Courses and Classes will empower you to pull your Real You out of the rubble.
- It’s a process of unlearning the opinions and beliefs that were superimposed on you by your Influencers.
- It’s to dig through all parts of the Fake Yous.
- It’s to throw out all the ideas you internalized that are inconsistent with the Real You.
- It’s a matter of returning to Your Real You..to your Most Natural Self.
- It’s so you can return to to the real person you were intended to be. That natural person with a whole slew of awesome, natural, innate traits and characteristics that are deeply and permanently embedded in your genetics and encoded in your DNA.
- It’s remembering who you were before the world got it’s hands on you and convinced you that the Real You might not be good enough.
- It’s allowing you to get in alignment, synch, and harmony with the Real You, your genetics, and your DNA. Then you’ll discover that it (you) are not only good enough, but way better off being the Real You than you are being the Fake You.
- It’s to be the person you are without the untrue, inaccurate, and false opinions and beliefs that have been piled on you and that you’ve internalized over the years.
The Bottom Line – Stop The Fighting Once & For All…
It’s only after you’ve excavated through the rubbish to reach your unique Real You that you can stop fighting yourself.
Then you’ll automatically stop acting contrary to your natural behavioral preferences.
You’ll immediately and automatically stop judging yourself.
You’ll immediately understand what makes you tick, why you do what you do, why you think and feel the way you do, and how to get yourself in alignment, sync, and harmony with your own strengths and your “Real You.”
You’ll regain the strength and insight you need to live the best life you can with the most harmony, most success, and least amount of stress.
Then, and only then, can you Achieve Your Highest Purpose and Reach Your Full Potential.