What do I need to do to prepare for the call?
Be settled somewhere. We both need to be free of distractions. We require a “200% Obligation Rule.” We’ll give you 100% of our respect, time, attention, and best effort. You will give yourself 100% of your honesty, transparency, and vulnerability. That’s a total of 200% focused exclusively on you. Without that, this doesn’t work. If you’re driving or have kids running around in the background or in a loud environment, it doesn’t work.
Do you follow a standard “Coaching Formula,” “Framework,” “Script,” “System,” or anything like that?
No. Absolutely no. When we have your Transformation Conversion, one of the things we’re likely to emphasize is that every human is unique. There is no set script, formula, or framework that could possible work for everyone. With 8 Billion unique individuals on Earth, each with their own level of intelligence, commitment, skills, experiences, challenges, problems, issues, situations, dreams, and goals, it would be virtually impossible to guess what will work or not work in the next Conversation. Each Transformation Conversation is unique. Our job is to be open minded, non-threatening, non-judgmental, and, with your permission, guide you with the best service possible during our time together. One unique individual at a time. One unique conversation at a time. There is no formula for that.
I have a couple of little issues in my life that are bothering me, but nothing big. Can I still benefit from this?
Absolutely. (Personally I (Dexter speaking here) recently sought out and hired a subconscious mind facilitator/coach simply to help me discover if I hand any blocks holding me back from reaching my highest potential playing tennis – if you want to take about “little issues.”) In our experience, “little issues” are often the tip of a dangerous iceberg. And even if they really are little issues, they still need addressing. All “issues” cause stress. Stress causes disease, ill health, and all manner of other negativity and negative energy. So, by all means, let’s explore your little issues and get them resolved sooner rather than later. this is free, so you have nothing to lose regardless of how big you belief your “issues” are.
I’ve tried several Life Coaches and Self-Development Coaches and even a Relationship Coach, but nothing like that has ever worked for me before. How do I know your free Transformation Conversation will work for me?
You don’t know. we don’t know either. That’s why we want to block out 2 hours of time. That’s why we’re making it free. (We considered making it paid with a no questions asked money back satisfaction guarantee. We decided, however, it’s not necessary and makes things overly complicated.) If you don’t like what you get by the end of our Conversation, then that’s the end of it. With a combined 60 or so years of experience behind us, we’re positive “it will work for you.” But, it’s not up to us. It’s entirely, 100% up to you if you feel you’ve gotten something out of it or not.
Do I Need To Know Anything About the 4-Temperaments or 4-Agreements To Make This Work?
Nope. If you do, that’s fine. But we’re going way beyond “knowing” about them. We’re going to use them with you to help you uncover any underlying issues or misbeliefs you may have that are holding you back in any way – probably unconsciously. And then go deeper to let you experience, for yourself, how to incorporate them into your life to reduce stress, solve issues, and effortlessly turn your dreams into reality.
How Long Have You Been In Business?
Dexter became a student and ardent fan of the 4-Temperaments about 40 years ago. He started coaching, mentoring, and guiding individuals, couples, organizations, and businesses in the 4-Agreements as soon as he learned about them. He’s been a student and ardent fan of the 4-Agreements for over a decade and has been coaching, mentoring, and guiding individuals, couples, and groups in their application since then. Birgitte Bradshaw has been working side-by-side with Dexter for over a decade. She is also experienced in the Mind-Body Continuum and tapping into the subconscious mind and will be lending her expertise and experience in those realms (as appropriate) during your Exploration Consultation as well.
Do you work with businesses and organizations as well as individuals?
Yes. We’ve done extensive training with businesses, groups, and organizations. The issues are different, obviously, but the underlying foundation and framework of the 4-Temperaments and 4-Agreements still applies.
Do you work with people and organizations outside the United States?
Yes. We do most of our Transformation Consultations via Zoom. We use other platforms as well, sometimes…but Zoom seems to be most accessible to most people. This allows us to easily work internationally with the same effectiveness as having someone with us live, face-to-face in the same room.
I’m kind of scared to make this decision. It seems like a big decision.
Everyone is scared to make this decision. It’s human nature. Our species has survived this long because our first instinct is always survival. In your subconscious mind, that means be afraid of and avoid the unknown. And, that’s why we decided to invite and work with smart, ambitious, committed people for free for 2 hours. It’s gives you the opportunity to experience how we can help you in a completely safe environment with no risk whatsoever.
This sounds too good to be true. Is it a bait and switch? Or one of those “Mastermind” things where you get a tiny bit of content and then a long sales pitch?”
No. In fact, it’s sort of the opposite of that. It’s just a private conversation. You’ll bring some of your unresolved challenges and issues with you. And maybe some unrealized wants, needs, hopes, and dreams. And we’ll talk 100% about you and those things that you decide on. You’ll see for yourself if we can help you get unstuck, advance, and solve what needs to be solved. If YOU decide you’d like to continue working with us after your 2-Hour transformation Conversation, we’ll talk about that as well. There will never be any “sales pitch,” pressure or anything like it. That would actually defeat the whole purpose which is to let you enjoy a powerful. transformational experience in a safe environment.
The 4-Temperaments
The 4-Agreements
Which Temperament Type best shows your “Real You?” Your Temperament is part of your DNA. It holds your Natural Strengths, Traits, & Characteristics.
Your Tempeament is the Foundation of your life. Your dominant Strengths, Traits, and Characteristics are encoded into your DNA and comprise your Natural Temperament – The “Real You.”
The Four Agreements, the seminal work of Don Miguel Ruiz, is a a simple, yet profound Code of Conduct for you life. You will learn and start internalizing it in minutes.